Friendship

Hello my awesome readers!

Welcome back!

Hope all of you are doing great.

To those of you who know, two very special friends of mine are celebrating their birthdays in the coming few days.

So I dedicate this post to them and all of my wonderful friends.

Friendship. 

The word itself means so much to all of us and has multiple meanings.

I don't know how the dictionary defines it but to me it's this connection you have with others which is so strong that you can trust them with your life and they will not disappoint.

They're the people you call at 2 in the morning, the people with whom you study a night before your exams, the people who know the most embarassing stuff about you, the people who have a P.hd in you and know every single detail about your life and vice versa, the people who know something is wrong from a single text, the people who irritate you, tease you, make fun of you, make you angry, who you fight the most with but at the same time you know that you can't spend even a day without talking to them.

And it doesn't matter whether your friend are from school, extracurricular activities, tutions, camp, etc. the only thing that matters is that they'll be there when you need them and they'll stand by you whatever the situation may be and that they'll make you feel good inside. You'll truly enjoy when you're in their company.

Even age, for that matter, doesn't matter. And according to me, having older friends means that either they take care of you more than you'll take care of yourself or they'll irritate and tease you more than anyone else, but you'll love them regardless.

You actually live when you're with friends and make the best memories! Imagine all that you'd miss out on if you didn't have your friends with you. 

Sure, they take your food without your permission and copy your work and get you in trouble and give you ridiculous names but admit it! You love all of that, don't you? 

I mostly have friends my age and they get on my nerves all the time and tease me but they are the ones who taught me to not take life too seriously and enjoy while it lasts. And a few of my older friends have actually given me quite a lot of advice which came in handy while others still call me a 'kid' and keep irritating me but I love that too!

In the lockdown, especially, I've met some wonderful people through my acting classes and I've grown to love them. All of us are from different parts of India and the world but when we're together, we just click. We just do.

I also met some new people when I changed my school and they were all very sweet and welcoming. And a couple of them have become such good friends of mine!

I'm grateful to have such people in my life and you should be too! Think about it. Out of the millions of people in this world, you met those select people who have become so important to you that you can't go a single day without them.

So, here's something you can do:

Go and text or call your friends and tell them how much they mean to you. Thank them for being your friend and appreciate all that they do. Send them this post if you think this conveys everything you wanna say. Try to get in touch with those you haven't talked to much and start talking again. You never know if a single text may reignite that friendship. Maybe have a video call with your friends and talk about anything and everything. Just go and talk to them!!!! Tell them all that's in your heart. 

You're lucky enough to have amazing people in your life so why not cherish them?!

Mail me about how it went at joshidisha2007@gmail.com or just text me. I'd love to know! I may also continue this topic next time and talk about your experiences so tell me!!!

Well, that's it for today. 

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Tell me your thoughts in the comments section. 

Bye! Take care.